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A Little About Me

Helping women return to God, return to themselves, and rebuild their lives with intention.

Kemi is a faith-based life coach, motivational speaker, self-published author, and the voice behind The Soft Life with Kemi, a movement for women who are done striving and ready to come home to God and themselves.

With over 15 years of experience coaching women through identity crises, broken marriages, and life-altering transitions, Kemi brings the rare combination of spiritual depth and raw, real-life wisdom.

She is the self-published author of Dear Sis!, available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble, and the host of The Soft Life Podcast, where she shares honest conversations about healing, faith, rebuilding, womanhood, and purpose.

As a multipreneur and visionary behind The Soft Life and Pretty & Paid, LLC, Kemi empowers women to rebuild their lives spiritually, emotionally, and financially while creating lives rooted in peace, purpose, and intentional living. She speaks to the woman who feels like she is starting over, because she has been her.

The Soft Life

Slow down, get aligned with God, and rebuild intentionally.

Faith-centered encouragement, practical life tools, and honest conversations for women moving from burnout to balance and from survival mode to peace and purpose.

The Message

A sacred space for the woman who is tired of surviving and ready to rebuild with God.

The Soft Life is more than an aesthetic. It is a healing journey rooted in rest, restoration, faith, emotional wellness, and becoming whole again after life has tried to break you.

Faith-centered encouragement and teaching
Soft Life coaching and digital resources
Healing and rebuilding tools
Lifestyle content rooted in peace & purpose
Workshops, challenges, & community support
Honest conversations about identity, boundaries, & growth

Pretty & Paid, LLC

Building profitable businesses, powerful brands, and purposeful lives.

Pretty & Paid, LLC is a business and personal development brand created to help women build profitable businesses, powerful brands, and purposeful lives without losing themselves in the process.

Founded by Kemi Miller, Pretty & Paid exists to teach women how to move from survival mode into strategy, confidence, visibility, and financial growth while still embracing softness, authenticity, and faith.

Through coaching, workshops, speaking engagements, digital resources, and business education, Pretty & Paid equips aspiring entrepreneurs, creators, coaches, and women in transition with the tools needed to launch, rebuild, structure, and scale their businesses with intention.

At its core, Pretty & Paid believes women should not have to choose between peace and success. The mission is to help women become both emotionally whole and financially empowered, building lives and businesses that reflect purpose, freedom, impact, and sustainability.

Testimonials

Words from women Kemi has reached

“I just see your knowledge and love for him (God) and I want that. Like I love me some Jesus, but I don’t know the Bible like you do and my next season is dedicated to that.”

“To be transparent with you, I have not been close to God since I was little. I really felt like the moment you spoke you were a sign from God and that I needed to pay attention to what you had to say.”

“That word! It was for me. ‘Mind Your Business’ is going to stick with me. It was about tending to my own life with intention: my peace, my healing, my purpose, my capacity.”

Signature Talks

Messages for women returning to God and rebuilding with intention

She Starts Again

For the woman rebuilding after loss, divorce, or a life that did not go as planned. The sacred art of beginning again with God as your foundation and confidence as your compass.

Mind Your Business

A powerful call to tend your own life with radical intention: your peace, your healing, your purpose. Stop managing everyone else and start stewarding your own.

The Soft Return

What does it look like to stop performing for God and simply come back to Him? This message leads women through returning to faith, identity, and wholeness gently and on purpose.

Rooted in Him, Whole in Her

Identity, marriage, and confidence grounded in scripture. Women leave knowing who they are in God and how that truth transforms every relationship they carry.

Ideal For

Women's church events, faith conferences, women's retreats, podcast guest appearances, life coaching panels, and healing & wellness events.

Topics

Faith & identity, marriage, confidence, healing, rebuilding, intentional living, and starting over.

Experience

Life coach since 2011 with 13+ years walking women through identity, healing, and wholeness.

Contact Me

Kemi Miller

Keynote speaker & life coach

@thesoftlifewithkemi

Serving Houston and surrounding areas

thelifewithkemi@gmail.com 832-619-0091 (Message Line)